Singleness is truly a BEAUTIFUL thing!
This ‘season’ or time in our lives is one in which we are totally free to place all our attention on God’s leading and calling on our lives. We are not bound by many responsibilities and are able and ready to jump when God says so without having to calculate ‘the effect’ on people who may depend on us.
Singleness has for so long received a bad name and image. In fact, it is during our enjoyment of singleness, in living out the purpose God wants us to, that we meet our spouse. I completely believe in the saying that God will lead you to your spouse/vice versa whilst you are busy with His work.
I for one, have never enjoyed my singleness as much as I am now, after years of struggling to come to this realisation. Every day, I am excited to push forth what God has placed on my heart, my mind is so full of ideas and inspirations and my hands and feet are busy trying to find ways to bring them forth……anxiety about my love life simply has no space to rest in me.
I encourage you to go before God in prayer and ask Him to bring this revelation to you too. As I said, it took me years of prayer to finally come to this realisation….but I have finally got it! Oh yes I have, and I am oh so grateful!
Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end. So I concluded there is nothing better than to be happy and enjoy ourselves as long as we can.
Ecclesiastes 3 :11-12 NLT (Read the whole chapter if you can)